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Nagaramama's avatar

As an old-ish married mom who loves having sex with men, thank you for writing this. I will disseminate among the men that I know who wish to have sex with women (and maybe also non-binary/men too, since I feel like a lot of this is pretty universal!)

And bookmarking this for 15-ish years from now to print out and leave lying around the house (if paper is still a thing then) for when my (for now, male-bodied) child and his peers want to start having sex.

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Standard Deviant's avatar

Thank you. I take this as a high compliment!

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Jim Ryan's avatar

I'm older than you but agree with your perspective 100%. Young guys need to hear this. Please write more. I could see you being the Anti-Tate, or Non-Shapiro. Great stuff

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Standard Deviant's avatar

Thank you. I find comments like this really encouraging. I mainly started writing this just to air random opinions, so I've been surprised by how many views this little blog gets.

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Jim Ryan's avatar

I’m glad. That’s why I wrote this. Being a writer can feel like shouting into the void, so I wanted you to know I think you have a valuable contribution to make.

So much more to say on the topic, but will leave it there for now.

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